The Secret: Find Joy in Solving Any Problem by Ryan Brenizer

If I had any tips to achieve long-term success and happiness as a wedding photographer, it's to learn to appreciate as many of the tasks and skills required as possible. In the end, this job consists of making thousands of choices and solving innumerable problems each wedding day, and there is a joy to be found in simply doing well, whatever the task. We both entered into wedding photography with a joy and expertise in storytelling and using light and lenses in interesting ways, but now we also find joy not just in things like organizing large bridal parties in flattering ways but also things that are entirely structural and non-creative.

I look back with pride on weddings where we entered into family photos 90 minutes behind schedule and finished on schedule, or when we had 25 table shots to do in 30 minutes and somehow pulled it off without making people feel rushed or harried.

Some of these things may not be the stuff of Pulitzers, but it is all part of the job, and learning to find joy in each part not only helps you as a photographer and avoids burn-out, but you'll inevitably do all of these things better.

(Especially since one of the best hints for any group photo is to be wearing a genuine smile).

Rolling (not) review (yet): Sony 24mm f/1.4 GM by Ryan Brenizer

Pre-orders are up!

October 26:

 

I have not seen or touched this lens yet, so this is in no way a review, but I've already placed my own order…

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What’s the point, given that I have no more direct experience so far than you do? Well, just kicking this off, this shows a few important things: 

1) This shows how important I consider this lens if it lives up to its potential — I could have probably finagled a small discount, and definitely didn’t have to pay sales tax if I took the time to fill out the paperwork, but it was more important to me to be able to place my order at 10:01 a.m. Because if waiting for all that paperwork meant the difference between having this lens at a wedding or two or not … and those weddings are such where it would make a real difference in the coverage (hello, pitch-black NYC dance floors!) then the extra cost is worth it.

(Of course, the lens is at least $800 less expensive than I thought it would be, so that helps, too.)

2) This should forever be inoculation against the idea that I am shilling for Sony, or anyone. Full cost, sales tax and all. No one’s even given me a single cocktail shrimp to affect my opinion of this item. All I am doing with my B&H contacts is basically telling them to get one in my hands as soon as possible, but no promises there, either. As always we come from a place of honesty and openness, because why not? 

Lastly we’re doing some site re-organization so that all content will appear here on the “/blog” page including rolling reviews, with separate pages highlighting the different types of posts.

Day in the Life: Ditmas Park by Ryan Brenizer

The reason that we are still passionate about weddings more than 1,000 of them later is we love *celebrating* the shared promise of love between two people. There is an amazing story to tell of the meaningful bonds on display on a wedding day and we hope to continue to tell these stories for decades to come.

We’ve always been interested in how these stories play out - in the full story of the family. We listen closely whenever any long-married couple gives advice, no matter how many times we’ve heard similar bits of wisdom before. We love seeing our couples and the families they make. Even algorithms show us that 90 percent of the Instagram photos we personally pay attention to are photos of our friends, family and our clients with their children and pets celebrating life day-by-day in joyfully mundane ways.

And this is a story we want to tell as well. It’s not a brand, or a business, or an identity, or any SEO buzzword. It’s just a part of us, something we live ourselves each day, especially now that we have our own child.

We want to tell the real stuff of family. Those moments characteristic of the people and time, which can slip from your memory in a changing and too-busy life. What was it like when you lived in that old neighborhood? What was it like to be a new parent? How did it feel?

This is just some of the real story of this family. This is a baby enjoying a characteristic morning, smoothies and cereal and all. This is a baby going to Coney Island not because a photographer was there, but because friends were in town and wanted to go to Coney Island.  This is what it was like to get her ready to sleep for the night.

There is a transcendence in families, what it means to be a parent or a husband or a wife or a son or daughter, and there are waves and waves of particulars, the things that surprise us when we look back and say "wow, *that's* what it was like."

We want to tell that all of this precisely because we realize how valuable it is for ourselves.

 

September 15, 2008. by Ryan Brenizer

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10 years ago. Jerpoint Abbey, Ireland

It began at a grave. Even then, my photographic life was transitioning into more and more professional work, so when I found myself traipsing about Ireland, just taking photos for the heck of it, I wanted to try to do something different than thousands of other tourists. But the thing about graves is that they don't really do much that's interesting. So … shallow depth of field? My 70-200 could certainly do that at the long end, but the frame was too tight, and uninteresting.

Wait. I had An Idea.

The way invention often works is that the mass of striving, stumbling human minds just waits until the conditions are right, and then related ideas begin popping up. Set the precursors, and you start seeing multiple people work toward inventing calculus or the theory of evolution … or the far less consequential but quite fun idea of slapping together a bunch of panoramic images to make images that are otherwise impossible without extreme labor or digital creation.

And so, with the scene set of panorama creating becoming easy enough to just try things and hope for the best, I was neither the first person to independently come up with this idea … nor the last (sorry Joel Grimes!)

So, while the pictures were fresh and exciting to me, the part I’m more proud of comes after: Young(er) Ryan realized that this was not some idea of staggering irreplaceable genius, but just a really neat idea … so the key was to see exactly what can be done with it, and then sharing ever single bit of that knowledge, quickly and completely.

Looking back at the pictures from 10 years ago, one conclusion is obvious: I am bad at taking vacations. Panoramas dominate the rest of the trip -- and experimentation. Two hours later, before I even know if this works, I am trying to pano an entire two-story building (verdict: it works, technically, but not worth the effort). Two days later I am capturing candid action in panorama … something even now I very rarely do. Lighting with it, trying off-camera flash (tip: keep the power low), poking around the edges to see what worked. And somewhere that week figuring out that the math was (with a perfect planar stitch) the same as a teleconverter in reverse.

And, the important part: sharing all this, right away. Not to sell workshops: I wouldn't for years later, and it would be five years until I made a video I could point people to when they wanted in-depth help. Just because knowledge should be free. To me this is the best impulse of media of all kind, carried into the social media world.

But in ways I've been apologizing for it ever since. "Hey world! You probably know this already but it seemed pretty cool. I probably won't be so good at it since my work is about people and meaningful moments captured in very tight time frames, none of which says 'do this as a panorama,' but here you go!"

Even as I write this I cringe inside because it seems so self-promotional, even when being self-promotional is how someone running a business puts food on their table and self-promotion is the default mode of today's Internet.

Five years ago — September 2013 — that. I let my web site basically die. I shelved a helpful tutorial I had spent thousands on producing just from hearing the voices of not-yet-existent forum trolls yelling "Is he claiming he invented the composite?" (Not at all; I just made it extremely efficient in the pursuit of laziness.) But I also did a great deal of work on the person who I was away from the Internet. I went from the guy who probably scared a few assistants with my intensity (truly sorry for some of those drives though NYC traffic) to someone who has written this entire thing on his phone because he's watching my baby son sleep.

What comes next is, I hope, building on the good and letting people say what they may. We have seen more and more the weird darkness of social media … but watching this one neat idea of had 10 years ago branch out, be taught in colleges I attended, and carry the name of my father and son to many people struggling to pronounce "Brenizer," I remind myself of its possibilities.

Thank you.

Full Review: Lensbaby Sol 45mm f/3.5 "Tilt-Shift" by Ryan Brenizer

Read the tech detail here and check prices here

I don't buy much gear on a whim, but when Lensbaby announced a 45mm "tilt-shift" for $200, I looked at my badly broken and nearly $2,000 Nikon 45mm PC-E and said … "Maaaaybe I'll give this a try."

That was 15 minutes ago.

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Ok, this is glib -- and very precise. There are plenty of ways to make compelling images with this lens. It just depends on your needs. We use selective focus rarely, as it is best in small doses, but have had a lot of fun with the new ways of seeing control over the angle of the focal plane can give you. We use it for details on occasion and need the control for creative use in portraiture or relatively static coverage such as ceremonies or getting ready.

The good news is that you can actually do this to some extent -- focusing on areas closer to you and farther away. The bad news is that it is a liberal definition of "focus." I did not expect critical sharpness but we need a certain level of it to shoot details, and on this lens even basic sharpness -- not necessarily reading words on a page but seeing that there are words to begin with -- can only be achieved in certain areas, such as the center or the closer side of the tilt. This takes away tons and tons of even the basic usage of a real tilt-shift for us.

Well, it was fun while it lasted. Astonishingly there are trade-offs when you cut nearly 90 percent off the price of a lens.

Review: Sony A7III by Ryan Brenizer

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Over the course of my career using digital cameras, there have been two kinds of innovations that have marked a real step forward in daily work. The first were cameras like the Nikon D3, which simply did things relevant to my work as a wedding and event photographer that no camera had done before. The second were cameras like the D700, which brought many of these advances to a much lower price point, and thus wider audience.

Sadly, the cameras which have truly pulled off this trick are relatively rare — while cameras like the D850 certainly seem to fit the bill, often it seems that camera companies are understandably afraid to cannibalize the sales of their higher-profit-margin pro camera lines by not including features that could be there relatively easily and cheaply. Sony has often been described as cameras made by and for engineers — lacking the design panache of, say, much of the Fuji line — but this is often not a bad thing. They have often seemed almost eager to cannibalize earlier cameras, releasing follow-ups either soon after previous models or throwing whatever they can into a camera at a given price point.

We can often ignore the effects of price in camera reviews other than in a snippet at the very end, but price is a huge factor for nearly every consumer. In fact, the very first lesson my father taught me about buying a camera for personal use was “always buy second-best.” The TLR we had kicking around the house was a Yashica, not a Rollei. Our all-manual 35mm SLR was a Minolta SRT, not a Nikon F. The curve of diminishing returns is a powerful and near-universal law, so for the vast majority second-best will often be a far better way to get bang for your buck.

We have been using the A7III in our workflow for the past month by adding it to our three Sony A9’s — that class of camera that was designed to do things never done before, with a price to match. At this moment, the A7III costs 44 percent of what an A9 does. Is the A7III more than 44 percent as good as the A9 overall?

Spoiler alert: Hell yes. Most of the time. There are situations where the A9 shows why it’s worth its cost. But there are also situations where the A7III is actually the better camera, cannibalization be damned. 

Body and Handling

Sony is in the apparent belief that they have found the Platonic Ideal of camera design, as each of their recent models differ in forms by the smallest of degrees.

As many have noted, this form seems entirely driven by engineering without, say, Fuji's care for aesthetics. That's not necessarily a bad thing as the point is to take pictures with, not of, the camera, but then of course the physical operation needs to be as close to ideal as possible.

The first thing you notice when you're used to the A9 is that the buttons are less "clicky" and more "squishy." This is purely aesthetic and I'm not even sure which I prefer yet, but is noticeable in every aspect of its physical operation.

The lack of a drive dial on the upper-right of the A9 is something I anticipated missing a lot more than I actually did. While the high-speed of 20fps makes it highly specialized and something to be switched in and out of as needed, on the A7III I have been able to turn it to high-speed drive from my function menu and pretty much forget it, and it never takes a series of photos when I meant to take one, unlike high speed on the A9. 

Menus

In keeping with Sony tradition, the menus are a bit of a train wreck, with categories sorted almost seemingly at random. Luckily there are enough customizeable buttons and a completely customizeable function display, meaning you don’t have to delve into the menus often, and there is a “My Menu” function. I highly recommend taking the time to go through and customize all of these things so that your time delving through each of the menus wondering where they put a specific function is minimized.  

EVF

One of the differences from the A9 that is a straight-up downgrade is the EVF, which is a couple generations behind in resolution, the same 2.36MP as the A7II. This is noticeable in general use, but usually only if you’re really looking for it. The only time I ever really noticed it had more to do with the increased sharpening Sony has seemed to use to compensate, which put some noticeable halos on contrasts areas. (This, of course, has no effect on image quality.)

But it is still more than good enough to function in the ways that I need. A lens like the Mitakon 50mm f/0.95 might have a hit rate of 5 percent on even bright, large DSLR viewfinders, since they don’t fully show the shallow depth of field except with Live VIew.

I am in general a strong believer in EVFs especially as they get better and better, not least because the limiting factor of sensitive sensors in dark situations is the not-as-sensitive human eye. It’s a bit disappointing that the EVF is not class-leading but has been far from a deal breaker and something I forgot a vast majority of the time. 

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Autofocus:

First, you have all of the general advantages of autofocus on mirrorless cameras, which is autofocus points *everywhere*. It’s incredibly helpful to only have to focus and recompose in the rarest and most quickly-changing of situations, and even in tricky situations like through a concave shaving mirror you can hit autofocus at the very edge of your frame:

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55mm f/1.8 @ f/2.2, 1/125th, ISO 320

Conversely the major disadvantage of at least Sony mirrorless cameras is that they don’t allow infrared AF assist beams. This is not a giant problem in terms of autofocus other than in the darkest situations, but after 10 years I have learned to use the beam like a laser-guided targeting system, being able to precisely compose dance floor shots without ever looking through the viewfinder. Newer Sony flashes come with visible-light LED panels which can be used, but they call a lot more attention to yourself. We put red gels over them but the beam isn’t nearly as precise, so other than the darkest situations (too dark to see with the naked eye) we use AF-C.

But the big question is: Is it as good as the autofocus on the A9? And after a lot of testing, the answer is absolutely.  In fact, I would say that if you see any marked difference between the two, it’s a lot likelier that the difference is in your own psychology. Both of them have incredible AF systems that change the game compared to previous generations of mirrorless cameras.

I had to test it a lot before I was sure about this, and finally became so sure that I changed my entire setup. No matter what, I do not allow gear testing to negatively impact my professional work in any way, particularly with weddings. I always shoot weddings with two camera, one for wider lenses and one for telephoto. So with the first few weddings with this camera I used the A7III for my less AF-critical long lens work, giving most of the interesting photojournalism to the A9.

Then we shot a South Asian mehndi filled with incredible dance performances, and I realized that at some times I wanted to use flash as quickly as possible. The new Sony flashes are great — amazing TTL great refresh rates, and even the smaller HVL-F45RM has very good power while being well-balanced with the smaller bodies. The A7III, unlike the A9, can use this up to 10 frames per second. It is rare for me to shoot flash that fast, but at times on this job it was incredibly helpful in getting the right moment, so I’ve swapped it completely: The A7III is now my main camera for wide lenses.

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16-35 @ f/2.8, 1/250th, ISO 1600

Reception dancing can be incredibly taxing on autofocus — the motion is erratic and it happens in the dark. After a while, I have learned setting that seem optimal on the A7III or A9. Counterintuitively, you should usually turn face-detect off: look above. See all those faces in the background? So does the camera, and it really likes to change focus to them. Then I usually use zone focus in AF-C, since nearly always with dancing I am focusing toward the top of the frame, and it lets me move the AF point far more quickly, just one or two presses to the left or right. 

16-35 @ f/2.8, 1/250th, ISO 1600

16-35 @ f/2.8, 1/250th, ISO 1600

Also completely comparable to the A9 is the Eye AF -- which is great because in an often-wide aperture job like blur-out-the-EXIT-sign wedding photography, reliable Eye AF is way better than sliced bread.

55mm @ f/1.8, 1/125th, ISO 200

55mm @ f/1.8, 1/125th, ISO 200

Image quality

High ISO

Plenty of cameras have great high ISO these days. The D5 perhaps still my favorite of the cameras I’ve used, but in practical usage the A7III is just about as sensitive as you would ever need in most situations. I sometimes use bounce flash in conjunction with high ISO to give just a tiny kiss of light to the ambient, and while I rarely need higher than 3200 for that use, above I was able to use ISO 6400 and not only keep noise low but retain great color and dynamic range between white shirts and dark hair and dresses.

85mm FE @ f/1.4, ISO 6400

85mm FE @ f/1.4, ISO 6400

Dynamic Range

One of the touted image differences over the A9 is increased dynamic range in the shadows at base ISO. This has been basically the next “HIGH ISO quality” in desired image advances over the past few years and for good reason: It’s not just about fixing things if you get your exposures wrong. Mostly it is about being able to take photos in a single shot that look more like what you see with your eyes, which can easily see both deep shadow and bright light at the same time. 

Here is an image from a corporate shoot where they wanted a very specific composition … but at the time of day available to shoot the subjects were in shadow and the cityscape was in bright sun. The A7III handled it beautifully: 

16-35 @ 22mm f/3.5, 1/640th ISO 100

16-35 @ 22mm f/3.5, 1/640th ISO 100

One thing I’ve been noticing in the picture below and others is that the highlight transitions as it nears pure white seem to have a smoother roll-off than the A9. The above is probably the perfect scenario for comparison, as I would have expected some clipping to adjust for with the A9 but the transition looks more like negative film to me. (Not *exactly* like, lest I get nasty comments from film buffs. More like.)

The photo below gives you a bit of a sense of the dynamic range after mild processing. I only underexposed the skin about 2/3ds stop instead of a dramatic underexposure for the highlights on an extremely bright, cloudless summer day. The direct sun on the marble is clipped, but I am impressed that the sun on the pavement and grass was not totally blown out. 

16-35 @16mm f/2.8, 1/100th, ISO 100

16-35 @16mm f/2.8, 1/100th, ISO 100

Shutter speed

The A7III's shutter "only" goes up to 1/8000th versus the A9's 1/32000th, but even with superfast lenses I have almost never needed more than that. Here I am shooting with very bright sun directly on my subject's white shirt at f/1.4, and it is still well within the dynamic range of the sensor.

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A7III, Mitakon 50mm @ f/0.95, 1/2500th, ISO 100

Data Readout: Why the A9 Costs So Much

Almost all of this, so far, is great news … except for people like us who have bought multiple A9s. Why bother when this camera does so much for far less money?

The biggest reason is that the A9 is absolutely specialized at silent shooting in ways that the A7III is not. Firstly, the A9 has automatic shutter — flash work needs a manual shutter, so turn it on and it automatically switches. On the A7III though, the flash simply won’t fire — and worse, for new users, it won’t tell you why. Even when you know the camera inside and out, it’s annoying to have to press the extra buttons. 

One thing that is a distinct difference is the way that the silent shutter is treated in the menu: simply the lack of an "auto shutter". On the A9, you can be shooting silently and the shutter will automatically turn mechanical when a flash is turned on; on the A7III the flash simply will not work until silent shutter is turned off. Once you know you can adjust for this, but it is at least an annoyance as it means a button press, and can lead to frustration for shooters newer to the system. 

Worse, the data readout on the A7III is much slower than on the A9, which can have several effects on images. First, very occasionally you will see slight distortion in your images — usually with quicker motion but not always. The distortion here is subtle but absolutely nothing changed between these two photos, except the couple becomes noticeably wider on the right. They say the camera adds some pounds, but that’s not the effect you want. 

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Banding: Worst case scenario

More dramatically, the slower readout on the A7III can lead to banding — sometimes extreme — under some lighting when shooting silently. Generally even the worse banding I see on the A9 (other than extreme cases that even show up on DSLRS) is more of a variance from one image to the other than an uncorrectable series of stripes across an image. Now, I general the A7III is pretty good, noticeably better than the A7rII I used for more than a year, but in cases the banding is quite noticeable. Of course you can turn on the mechanical shutter, which actually works faster than the A9’s, but we love the silent shooting for a lot of reasons — especially since one of the places you often see terrible, banding light is in churches. This test shot, right near a highly banding makeup light, is by far the worst shot I’ve seen in thousands of images.

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Of course, it should be pointed out, in situations where banding is noticeable a) you see it in the viewfinder so it’s not a nasty surprise later and b) when you turn it off what you are left with is a 10fps full frame camera for $2,000.

85mm FE @ f/1.4, 1/125th, ISO 1250

85mm FE @ f/1.4, 1/125th, ISO 1250

Conclusion:

If I had one camera to buy for my work, it would be the A9. But if I had a second one? It would probably be the A7III, particularly if I were in a place where the money would make a meaningful difference in other equipment — using native Sony and Zeiss lenses versus adapting lenses, for instance. There are advantages and disadvantages, but the A9 is more expensive for a reason, and having the A7III as a 2nd body would also allow me to make it a primary in places where it wins out, such as outdoor portrait sessions.

Personally I am keeping the A7III for professional use, and would have been happy to have a 2nd one as a backup for Tatiana’s, saving some money over out three A9 setup. But I’m still happy to have the more expensive cameras in our workflow — being able to shoot silently in every type of lighting is just too big an advantage for wedding photography, and so the A9 will mostly become my long-lens camera, including the lion’s share of photos at indoor ceremonies. But I am surprised and impressed that there is no meaningful drop in autofocus quality. In short, Sony has delivered a camera with a price to performance ratio that is shocking, and says great things about their philosophy for packing as much in each camera as they can.

More sample photos 

Want a RAW file? I wouldn't do that to my clients, but I volunteer as tribute: Here's a test headshot. Revel in the fact that I only had about 15 seconds to shave.

Day in The Life: Windsor Terrace by Ryan Brenizer

“Meaning” in family photography is vast and incalculable, but there’s an extra layer when working in the home, and an entire new angle to consider with a home birth family. This little girl gets to grow and love and learn in the same place where she has been since the first second of her life, and lucky her for that place to be as filled with joy and deep connections as this home. It was such a pleasure for both of us to come inside and capture this moment in the ever-changing life of a curious, delightful toddler.

Important Product Review: Earplugs (and my favorite ones) by Ryan Brenizer

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Buy my favorite ones here!

This could be the most important review wedding and event photographers ever read. Here's why:

Excessive noise is incredibly damaging to your hearing, and the damage is irreversible. And weddings are LOUD. Really, really loud. If wedding vendors were regulated by OSHA they couldn't show up without massive ear-protecting headphones. And while that might look strange on the wedding day, there are some things that work wonders at different price points:

1: Expensive: You can get all kinds of earplugs specially made for your own ear canal. If you're a musician, maybe you already have them. Great! But the chaos of weddings is tailor-made to lose earplugs, so we have never even considered these (also because the next option is so good)

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2: Cheap: Etymotic ETY-plugsThese are sooooooo goood. I, being a geek, have often wondered how Superman's sense of touch works. He can feel incredibly fine detail through super-sensory powers, but he certainly doesn't feel getting hit by a missile in the face more than a normal person. So there must be a threshold where the curve of sensory overload just sort of slopes down to almost a stop. That's what it feels like to wear these earbuds.

You can still easily have a conversation at normal volume. The general sounds of a quiet summer day in the forest are only dampened the tiniest bit. But you can also walk directly in front of a too-loud DJ speaker blasting to a giant concert hall and be OK. In fact, you can hear people speaking at normal volume far *better* in wedding receptions, and the only problem is you have to remember that they can't also hear you unless you yell.

This will not only save you from permanent hearing damage, but it opens up shooting opportunities. On many packed dance floors, the only place to stand is right in front of the speakers, which are so loud even drunk people know they're bad for them. This allows you to get in, out, and around, and all sorts of close angles of dancing that might be otherwise difficult.

Highly recommended, we have bought well over 20 pairs (see the part about not buying expensive ones). But you should also buy:

3: Super cheap ones: The foam earplugs that cost $3 for 20? Keep a bunch of those in your bag. Because it's easy to lose plugs and too important to even go one job without. But if you do…

4: Free: Because your hearing is crucial, take care of it even if you have no other option. Go to the bar, get a paper napkin. Tear off half, and then tear that in half. Take those strips, fold them over, dampen them very slightly … and put them in your ears. They should be large enough to fill the canal and also to be able to easily pull out again.

Rolling review: HVL-F60RM by Ryan Brenizer

Initially rolling-review posts will be updated as I go, right from the moment I receive the item. Then when all of the information is in it will be cleaned up into a finished review format.

See tech info and buy it here!

This flash is definitely for people who didn't get into mirrorless just for smaller cameras.

This flash is definitely for people who didn't get into mirrorless just for smaller cameras.

June 16: Testing as a backup flash at today's wedding. Thr flash pairs effortlessly as a transmitter or receiver if you are already used to the interface from the 45RM flash. 

June 18: I’ll have a lot more to say about the bounce mechanism of this flash, but what was surprising to me is simple but niggling: compared to the way traditional flashes bend when bounced at an angle and backward (my preference a vast majority of the time for documentation) it hits a slightly different spot. The difference is very, very slight and would likely even barely show up in direct comparisons but when you’ve taken literally more than a million shots the other way it requires a bit of psychic adjustment.

The Roundhouse Beacon Falls wedding by Ryan Brenizer

We try always to go above and beyond the expectations clients have of us, sometimes to the edge of fanaticism. On December 26, 2016, we had the joy of finding out Tatiana was pregnant. Soon, we realized two fundamental truths at the exact same time: One, Tatiana would be 38 weeks pregnant at Lee and Chris's wedding. Two, The Roundhouse is beautiful and in pastoral Beacon, NY … and two hours away from Brooklyn. The first wasn't a problem … again, Tatiana is fanatical and would have done a great job swollen feet and all. But the second? We didn't even want to risk causing a scene at a wedding, particularly one that would also distract me like T going into labor far from home.

So we needed a replacement. And it had so be a great photographer. Or even better … two great photographers, and we would look anywhere for them. So Ryan was joined by Anna Nguyen of Zee Anna Photography from Fort Myers, FL, who we call the bride whisperer because she is so good at posing them and making them feel comfortable, and Ben Chrisman of Chrisman Studios in Charleston, SC. When it comes to Ben? Well if you don't know, now you know.

And I was glad that they were able to join be for a wedding that was filled with energy, humor, and affection. The friendship between Lee and Chris and their wedding party was palpable, as was their sheer enjoyment of the day. And anyone willing to get down on a bar floor before their ceremony is all right in my book (luckily the Roundhouse is very clean).

Lee's favorite moment was the first look. "The quiet moment that Chris and I got to share before the craziness of the day was really special. I was so excited, and Chris was so emotional and it was just perfect." But it was also a wedding defined by their love of family. The wedding was officiated by Lee's brother, and they kept their family's enjoyment at the forefront. "We wanted to make sure that it was a true celebration," Lee said, "We both love to dance! The Hora was sheer chaos, but what I loved was watching all of family join hands, dance, and celebrate our union."

And what a celebration it was…

Vendors:
FloristForever In Bloom
Band45 Riots
HairAmy Sardinsky at Beauty and Beyond Salon
MakeupDana Bosco Beauty
Dress designerLimor Rosen
VideographerSeth David Cohen

Whitby Castle wedding by Ryan Brenizer

The Whitby Castle is a beautiful stately venue with many gorgeous features, but Alyssa had her sights set on one in particular: a beautiful, gigantic tree in the middle of the property that can be integrated into the ceremony as the starting point of the procession. She loved that idea, and wanted to expand on it — also using the expansive interior of the tree (larger than most New York apartments) as a spot for the first look.

Only one problem: Alyssa was terribly allergic to the tree, and couldn’t be anywhere near it.

But where there is a will (and modern medicine) there is a way. We respect anyone willing to load themselves up on anti-histimines and anti-inflammatories to achieve their vision for the wedding day.

And what a vision: The day was not only beautiful but a relentlessly fun celebration of their connection to each other, friends and family. These were their favorite memories, particularly the apex of such celebrations: The horah.  "Being surrounded (literally) by all of our family and friends dancing was a great way to start off the amazing party,” said Alyssa, “I remember smiling all night."

Perona Farms wedding by Ryan Brenizer

There are a few phrases that, when you hear it, you tend to steel yourself into placating mode: "Come see my one-act play," "Read this poem I wrote," and, of course, "I wrote you a song." It simply makes sense that most of us can't do these things at world-class levels: They're really hard work, they take a lot of time to get right, and we have other things to do.

So I knew I was in for something special when Johnny started the day practicing the song he'd written for Eileen and … it was good. Really good. It-should-be-on-the-radio-good.

Of course, given the amount of musicality in this wedding, it all makes sense. This was a day that featured performances from: Johnny and Eileen together, Johnny's mother and father together, and Johnny and his mom together, and then backup vocals from the entire wedding party bedecked in Santa hats.

Yes, this was a winter wedding … and then some. It was cold. So when you see the pictures below of people wearing dresses outside? There were a few ingredients to that: 1) With the wedding party we practiced each group pose inside before having them run out and shoot as quickly as possible and 2) Eileen is a bad-ass who wanted her photos more badly than she wanted feeling in her fingers and toes.

All of this against the fantastic backdrop of Perona Farms. We love any place close to NYC that lets us indulge in a bit of the pastoral, so we were also quite happy to brave the cold in this beautiful location.

New Year's Eve Angel Orensanz wedding by Ryan Brenizer

Jenna and David managed to pack in a heck of a lot into their day: Not only was their wedding at the Angel Orensanz Center also a New Year's eve party, we stopped in for photos at …

Not bad for a freezing December day. And, of course, it was packed with the kind of love and joy you get when you put 200 friends in a gorgeous space with ample reasons to celebrate.

It's wonderful that Tatiana and I not only get to spend New Year's Eve together, but doing something that we love: Capturing the story and union of some really great people.

Montclair Golf Club wedding by Ryan Brenizer

I think our impressions of Kirsten and Chis are best summed up in the photo in front of the church door we chose to run below. You see, we also have photos from that moment that show off their style and elegance, Kirsten's gorgeous Pronovias dress and Chris cutting a dapper figure in his suit … but as soon as Chris gave that thumbs-up, I knew it would be their favorite and ours from that moment. Because Kirsten and Chris relentlessly focused on the things that really matter in the end … having fun together, celebrating their love with each other and with their friends and family.

And oh, how they celebrated.

Fun fact: I often edit weddings backward -- from the end of the day to the beginning -- mostly because there structural advantages to this, but also because it's fun to watch people become more and more sober. As you can see, Kirsten and Chris even pulled us into the celebration (though not the inebriation) toward the end.

Even through hosting such an amazing party, they have a laser focus on the joy they bring each other, so it's no wonder that their favorite memories of the day are the little moments between them. Chris fondly remembered the car ride to the ceremony, one of their few times truly alone during the day. Kirsten remembered how she felt when she walked down the aisle and saw the Chris was crying. "It made my heart melt!"

"Without question, the ceremony was the best part of the day," Chris agreed. "Our family, our friends … the people who all really wanted to be there were there. It's an amazing moment in a person's life. It's hard to put into words."

Luckily, there are pictures.

Russian Tea Room wedding by Ryan Brenizer

Like so many of those who keep making the choice to deal with the complication and expense of living in New York City, Tatiana and I are huge fans of its culture, idiosyncrasies, and history. So we were excited at the outset when Adriana and Stephen came to us with their wedding in New York's iconic Russian Tea Room, which has connections to Adriana's family. Of course, most excitement came from Adriana and Stephen themselves, and how fun they were to work with.

We asked Adriana what was most important to her while planning the wedding, and … well, we have to swear this isn't a paid advertisement: "Booking our photographers!" You see, Stephen wanted to become a wedding photographer himself in part from seeing our work, which is one of the biggest compliments we could possibly get. Adriana reached out to us the day after they got engaged, and kept it as a surprise to Stephen for a while. "I wasn't above planning our wedding around your schedule - anything to lock you in!"

As avid photographers themselves, it might not be a surprise that the photos were one of their favorite parts. When planning weddings, we know that the thought of mid-reception photos isn't for everyone, since it takes a few minutes away from valuable action, but for some couples it's a perfect time to actually get to see and talk to your new partner amidst all the chaos.  "It was so wonderful to just be able to steal a moment away and go off without anyone knowing where we went (or realizing we were gone) so we could enjoy some time alone and take more photos."  She also fondly remembers her brothers -- Ken, who officiated, and Adam, who "sobbing like a baby during my dance with my dad - it was super sweet."

Family appears prominently in their memories. Stephen remembers Adriana's sister having a brief but "extremely intense" show of emotion at the wedding. "(She's not one to ever really show emotion - so it was amazing!)"